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爱渭南的暖洋洋 发表于 2021-11-17 15:45

30多岁学霸女儿没结婚，爸爸多次逼婚：我的脸都被你丢尽了！医生：问题已经很严重

<div style='text-align: center;'><span style='font-size: 16px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'>家人帮忙介绍了男孩子，</div><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>认识两个月， 就被父母“逼婚”， 27岁的女孩莹莹抑郁了…… <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“还有一位30多岁的女孩， 非常优秀，就是因为没结婚， 总是被父亲说：女儿掉价了。 女孩后来得了非常严重的抑郁症。” 树兰（杭州）医院精神卫生科 副主任李旭娟副主任医师说。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>相亲两个月，被父母“逼着”结婚<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>莹莹今年27岁，事业有成，自己开了一家公司，“但是在我妈眼里，我再怎么优秀，只要没结婚，就让他们脸上没面子。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>于是从去年开始，家里就频繁给莹莹介绍相亲对象。2个月前，同乡介绍了一个男孩子，莹莹父母一下就相中了，“家里条件不错，双方家庭门当户对，还有什么好不满意的，赶紧结婚吧。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>面对双方父母的逼婚，莹莹崩溃了，“我根本不喜欢这个男孩子，我也不想结婚。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>莹莹说，自己从小就看着我爸妈吵架，天天吵架，就没有一天消停的，“我妈妈自己在婚姻中并不幸福，我对婚姻很恐惧。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>为此莹莹变得情绪低落、精力下降。心烦、失眠，注意力不集中、记忆力下降，关键是一看到母亲，就心慌。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“她妈妈是我的老病人，因为婚姻不幸，患有抑郁症，这次看到女儿突然情况不好，吓得赶紧带到门诊来一起看病。”李旭娟副主任医师介绍。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>莹莹在门诊做了相关的量表测试，经过详细门诊问诊，考虑是中度抑郁焦虑，“我在门诊同时给母女俩一起谈话治疗，经过沟通后，妈妈也松口，不再强迫女儿，之后配药回家了。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>女儿很优秀，父亲却觉得“丢脸”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>李旭娟说，门诊遇到过不少被家里逼婚抑郁的患者，大部分女孩子本身都很优秀，然而家庭问题严重。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“之前还有一个30多岁的女生，从小读书很努力，先后考上杭州外国语学校和香港大学，就是希望通过自己的努力能够得到家人的认可，但是她的父亲每次去喝喜酒，都要说自己的女儿掉价了，嫁不出去，老父亲的脸都被女儿丢尽了。”<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>这个女孩子抑郁症非常严重，一直在李旭娟副主任门诊随访，国庆节前病情已经基本稳定了。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不料，国庆假期又被父亲各种逼婚，再次情绪问题爆发。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>李旭娟建议，父母要学会尊重孩子，与成年后的子女要有边界感，不要把孩子当成自己的附属品，肆意的去占有和支配。在子女婚姻问题上不要急躁，控制好自己情绪，不要被周围人影响，多鼓励，少讽刺；也希望社会大众能够尊重个人自由，给予同理心，给年轻人以克服恐惧和喘息的空间，帮助他们减少精神上的压力。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>另外，不但有恐婚的，还有婚前焦虑的。之前李旭娟的门诊，就有个24岁的小伙子在结婚前一直感到胸闷不适，各项检查都正常的，后来抗焦虑治疗和心理治疗后胸闷感消失了。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>李旭娟建议，病人及家属要了解一些精神卫生知识和概念，提高自我防御能力，教病人学会正确对待自己的疾病和处理好周围的人际关系，更好的适应社会、家庭生活和工作。<p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'> <p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>同时建议年轻人应该多参加户外活动，不要总是宅在家里，沉迷游戏或网购，如果因为感情问题出现情绪低落、焦虑、失眠及各种躯体不适，可至精神卫生科就诊，根据评估结果选择心理治疗、物理治疗或药物治疗。<section style='line-height: 1.75em;'> </section><section style='text-align: right; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>(来源：钱江晚报）</section><section style='text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><img src="http://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202111/15/085455u700hn4p3zcw2hh0.jpg"></section>

@不倒翁 发表于 2021-11-17 16:34

多出外走走，防止抑郁症

小心翼翼 发表于 2021-11-17 18:33

压力太大吧，现在的年轻人不容易

微云发表于 2021-11-17 19:28

赶紧给娃心理咨询一下

wnlw13579 发表于 2021-11-17 20:46

抑郁症不能有心里压力

若尘发表于 2021-11-17 20:58

凑合的婚姻宁可不要

元芳·你怎么看@ 发表于 2021-11-17 21:36

抑郁症要“多管齐下",及时看医，不能等到很严重了，尽早&及早

离洛发表于 2021-11-17 21:58

太心疼孩子了

三聿田 发表于 2021-11-17 22:52

这是干涉婚姻自由了吧

段立志志 发表于 2021-11-17 22:53

尊重年轻人的人身自由！

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