爱渭南的暖洋洋
发表于 2022-10-14 15:37
朋友结婚不送份子钱？这种卡问世…网友：值得推广！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>参加婚礼随上</span><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);letter-spacing: 0.544px;caret-color: red;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>“份子钱”</span></p><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);letter-spacing: 0.544px;caret-color: red;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>已经是大家约定俗成的共识</span></p><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>不过，</span><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>刚过去不久的十一假期</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>杭州的小陈（化名）办了场婚礼</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>婚礼现场来的不少朋友</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>给的红包扁扁的</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>里面只放了一张卡</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>叫做——</span><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>礼金互免卡</strong></span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;display: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 595px !important;'></span></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>这是什么风俗？</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>原来，这是小陈夫妻俩的</strong></span></p><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>“21世纪新发明”</strong></span></p><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>——互免卡</strong></span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>今年28岁的小陈和老婆相识已有12年，他们想把婚礼作为爱情的礼物，办得有创意、有温度，也更有意义，所以各个环节都做了精心设计。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>两夫妻的好多朋友都有男女朋友，和他俩一样，今明两年也有结婚的计划。</span><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>“为了不给彼此增加负担，我老婆提议不如礼金互免吧。”</strong></span><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>小陈告诉记者。小陈觉得想法挺好。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>礼金可以互免，但形式还得有。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>于是，搞设计的小陈负责设计礼金互免卡，白底，黄灰字样，式样如一张电影票。小陈夫妇在婚礼当天收到这张卡后，撕下右侧，下回去参加对方婚礼时，将卡的左侧塞进红包送上，作为礼尚往来的凭据。右侧的主卡部分，会写上对方及其伴侣的名字。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>夫妻俩在送出婚礼请柬的同时，把这张礼金互免卡以夹页形式放在里面。大家收到后一般都能心领神会，有的来电话询问也都是好奇这份创意背后，有的则立马晒上了朋友圈，说这是21世纪新发明。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>这样的礼金互免卡，他们共送出去了20多份，基本都收回来了。</span></p><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.4352px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;display: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 595px !important;'></span></span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height: 1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><strong>小陈说，他们发送的对象都是同辈人，而且基本有男女朋友且近期有结婚计划的。这事也跟长辈们商量过，长辈们都表示赞同。</strong></span><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>上一辈人则还是会送礼金以表祝福。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>小两口对婚礼前前后后的用心和创意得到了亲朋好友无数点赞，获得了大家的一致好评，“我们觉得婚礼很圆满，大家玩得够开心，大家的祝福我们都收到了，谢谢你们。”小陈说。</span></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-shadow: none; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>网友纷纷表示支持：</strong></span></span></strong></p></section><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; text-align: center; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='line-height:1.56em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 122, 170);text-shadow: none;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;'><strong>值得推广！</strong></span></p></section><p style='text-align: center; margin-bottom: 24px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.4352px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);border-radius: 0px;padding: 4px;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;letter-spacing: 0.4352px;caret-color: red;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);border-radius: 0px;padding: 4px;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></p><p style='text-align: center; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>结婚的时候</p><p style='text-align: center; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;caret-color: red;'>不收礼金，</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;caret-color: red;'>只收“礼金互免卡”</span></p><p style='text-align: center; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>大家支持吗？</p><p style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center;'><span style='outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 10px;'>（来源：<span style='outline: 0px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;'>钱江晚报</span>）</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center;'><span style='outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 10px;'><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202210/11/103603hcw13474buxdd3j3.jpg"></span></p></section><p style='display: none;'><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div>
窗含西岭千秋雪
发表于 2022-10-14 15:52
这个可以有啊
太阳雨r95
发表于 2022-10-14 17:02
新鲜事，不收礼金，只收“礼金互免卡”我看行。
吐司面包
发表于 2022-10-14 17:05
这个可以有啊
☆邻家姐姐☆
发表于 2022-10-14 18:02
如果有了互免卡，谁过什么事我都懒得去了{:qqemoji21:}
难得糊涂@
发表于 2022-10-14 18:02
这是个新玩法
捷德
发表于 2022-10-14 18:02
可以推广一下！
元芳·你怎么看@
发表于 2022-10-14 18:21
新创异，不过也挺好
段立志志
发表于 2022-10-14 19:44
年轻新潮，估计社会上流行不起来！
∵了无痕
发表于 2022-10-14 19:53
这个挺好的！！