见面9天就闪婚，一年后男子起诉离婚：还我20万彩礼！法院这样判
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>昨天</span></section><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>话题<strong><span style='color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>“闪婚一年离婚欲要回20万彩礼”</span></strong></span></section><section style='margin-bottom: 24px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>冲上了热搜</span></section><p style='margin-bottom: 0em; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;max-width: 100%;height: auto !important;vertical-align: bottom;'></span></p><p style='margin-bottom: 0em; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><br></p><p data-track="52" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿强32岁，还没有对象，家里各种花式催婚。</span></p><p data-track="53" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>2020年11月底，经媒婆介绍他认识了适婚年纪的阿珍。</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>阿珍比阿强小五岁，母亲去世了，她非常渴望有一个自己的小家庭。从媒婆处阿珍了解到，阿强开了一家奶茶店，为人憨厚老实。虽然目前还没有房子，但很快就能在省城买房。</span></strong></p><p data-track="54" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>就这样，阿珍与阿强在媒婆的撮合下互加微信，素未谋面的他们很快便确定了恋爱关系，两家也开始商讨婚嫁事宜。</span></p><p data-track="55" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>2020年12月，俩人第一次见面，阿强对阿珍很关心。</span></p><p data-track="56" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿珍过生日阿强蛮用心，不仅当天凌晨通过微信发了888元和9999元的红包，还给阿珍办了一个生日派对，并邀请阿珍的朋友一起庆祝，阿珍很是感动。</span></p><p data-track="57" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>第二天，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>阿强父亲便转账给阿珍父亲20万元作为彩礼，阿强和阿珍一起选购“三金”，之后，两人去了民政局登记结婚。</span></strong></p><p data-track="58" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿珍说，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>这是距离他们第一次见面的第9天。</span></strong></p><p data-track="59" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>婚后不久，阿珍觉得阿强和其家人欺骗了自己。</span></p><p style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;margin: 0px;padding: 0px;max-width: 100%;height: auto !important;vertical-align: bottom;'></span><span style='font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>来源视觉中国 ，和本案无关</span></p><p data-track="61" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿珍发现，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>媒婆提到的阿强经营的奶茶店早已倒闭，而阿强迟迟不去找工作，终于找了份工作，也是三天打鱼两天晒网。</span></strong></p><p data-track="62" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>婚后小两口住在阿强父亲租的房子里，相处中，阿珍与阿强一家人的矛盾也越来越多。</span></p><p data-track="63" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>2021年6月，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>阿珍便索性搬出了与阿强家人一起住的出租屋单独生活。</span></strong></p><p data-track="64" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿强数次联系阿珍挽回未果。</span></p><p data-track="65" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>想到婚前给付大额彩礼导致家庭生活陷入困境，加上阿珍总提离婚，阿强及其家人觉得阿珍是在骗婚。</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>在与阿珍及其父亲协商未果后，2022年3月，阿强起诉至淳安法院要求离婚，并返还20万彩礼及“三金”。</span></strong></p><p data-track="66" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿珍也有自己的委屈，在提交的答辩状中细数了婚后与阿强相处产生的种种矛盾。</span></p><p data-track="67" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>阿珍觉得婚后的阿强没有婚前用心，婚前承诺的婚后买房买车，也迟迟没有兑现。</span></strong></p><p data-track="68" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>她表示自己同意离婚，“三金”这些物件也同意返还。但多次强调20万彩礼是阿强家主动提出给的，自己家从来没有提过要求。</span></p><p data-track="69" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>两人婚后也共同生活了半年多，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>因此只愿意返还彩礼2万元。</span></strong></p><p data-track="70" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>在案件审理中，承办法官发现，</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>20万的彩礼是阿强父亲从亲友处借来以及贷款来的，家中早已债台高筑，而阿强有先天性的耳朵和四肢障碍，独立生活能力确实有些欠缺。</span></strong></p><p data-track="71" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>考虑到双方共同生活时间较短，彩礼数额较高，双方也没有生育子女，承办法官经过多次背对背、面对面调解及耐心的释法明理，最终两人达成协议：</span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 122, 170);'>阿珍与阿强离婚，阿珍返还彩礼11万及“三金”。</span></strong></p><p data-track="72" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>阿珍当庭履行完毕。</span></p><p data-track="73" style='margin-bottom: 24px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify;'><span style='font-size: 16px;'>法官说法：尽管社会思想观念越来越包容开放，但闪婚、闪离给双方和家庭带来的纠纷和伤害依然是不可忽视的。彩礼作为一种婚嫁风俗广泛存在。随着经济水平的提高，彩礼数额虽变得越来越高，但对婚姻的约束力却在降低。古语有云“嫁女择佳婿，毋索重聘”。选择伴侣时，应以感情、品德为先。互敬互爱，才是婚姻长久稳固的基石。</span></p><section data-role="paragraph" style='margin-bottom: 24px; 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font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 10px;'>（<span style='text-align: justify;'>来源：钱江晚报全媒体编辑中心综合自 钱江晚报·小时新闻记者 黄伟芬 通讯员 淳安法、微</span>）</span></section><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: center;'><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202206/23/220706q00000ypy930gz0p.jpg"></section></div> 啥人都有 这是一见钟情吗？ 太仓促了一点 应该归还～ 九天结婚这速度好快 太仓促了一点 闪婚之后，由于双方了解有限，婚姻基础不牢固 九天结婚太快了…… 有点蹊跷
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