4.11【晚8点红包】@渭南人，你怎么看待长辈“催生”的行为？
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src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202504/10/084314vsl1hz4qdwu1mzvc.png"></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 长辈们的心情可以理解。该怎么做还是要根据自己的实际情况而定。
有能力，条件允许就生。
条件不成熟可以暂缓一缓！ 老人的建议是有必要的道理吗以后就会懂的 长辈催生行为犹如一面棱镜，折射出传统家庭伦理与现代个体价值的碰撞。理解其背后的情感逻辑，同时建立清晰的个人边界，或许是化解这一代际矛盾的关键。正如社会学家费孝通提出的“差序格局”理论，家庭关系需要在“推己及人”与“和而不同”间寻找平衡点。 长辈催生一方面是自私的，可能是碍于他人的眼光，可能是为了满足自己子孙满堂的心愿，可能是基因遗传的动机等等；另一方面，长辈可能也是为了你好，早些生育对女方的身体来说也是一件好事；但是事物总会有一些利弊，早点生孩子有好处，但是相对的，养育一个孩子所付出的精力也是极大的，所以很多年轻人不愿意生孩子，不愿意让自己有那么大的压力；所以各有个的想法，不过也无需排斥长辈的催生行为，毕竟他们只是表达想法，最后做决定的人肯定还是自己；如果自己各方面条件允许，早点生也没什么问题，同时也能够让长辈开心开心；如果各方面的条件不允许自己现在生孩子，那么也表明自己的态度和想法就好了，即使他们催生，但是并不能够决定我们的意见；我们自己确定好自己的想法，然后去做就好了
长辈的意见需要参考，也是为了我们考虑，实际决定的还在自己，不能一意孤行，也不能盲目听从。 人之常情吧。 催不催生，还是要看自己的实际情况，有能力养就生，没有就不生，要不孩子也跟着自己受苦受累！ 老人他说他的，不要反驳，尊重老人；自己的事情自己考虑做主！ 坦率的说 本尊站在高山上看待长辈“催生”行为
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