7.12【晚8点红包】你觉得孩子没结婚，工资该不该上交给父母呢？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><h2 style="text-align: center; padding-right: 5px; list-style: none; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-feature-settings: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 18px; line-height: 38px; font-family: "Microsoft Yahei", 黑体; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size: 17px;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.034em;display: inline;width: 676.994px;"></span></span></h2><section data-role="paragraph" style="list-style: none; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, 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BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: medium;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">注意！</span></span></p><section align="center" style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;"><p style="list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(33, 33, 34);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚8点红包到账记录</span></span></p></section><section align="center" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;"><p style="list-style: none;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(33, 33, 34);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></span></p></section><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 41, 65);"><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;"></span></span><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span leaf=""><br></span></span></strong></span></p><section><span leaf="" data-mpa-action-id="mco66pz31ty1" style="font-size: 16px;"><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">@耀友们</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">你觉得孩子没结婚，</span></span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">工资该不该上交给父母呢？</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;"></span></span></section><section><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section><span leaf=""></span></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;font-size: 16px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;" data-mpa-action-id="ma4r9ihi1ss4"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;">小编先来</span></span></span></p></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mczl0zqohgv"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">1</span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">6岁可以上交，</span></span></span></span></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mcwsjraj1zdr"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">18岁也没问题，</span></span></span></span></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mcwsjraj1zdr"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">20岁还年轻，</span></span></span></span></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mcwsjraj1zdr"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">22岁有社交，</span></span></span></span></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mcwsjraj1zdr"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">逛街、吃饭、旅游......</span></span></span></span></section><section style="line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mczl0zqo1iqq"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span style="float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);">自己挣的钱自己保管打理</span></span></span></span></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style="list-style: none; text-align: center;" data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><section><span data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mahkqdusrmb" style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "PingFang SC", "Lantinghei SC", "Microsoft YaHei", arial, 宋体, sans-serif, tahoma; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf="" data-pm-slice="1 1 [" para",{"tagname":"section","attributes":{"data-role":"paragraph","deep":"17","style":"margin-bottom:="" 0px;list-style:="" none;text-align:="" center;","data-mpa-action-id":"maaf4c211ukc","data-pm-slice":"0="" 0="" []"},"namespaceuri":"http:="" <a="" href="http://www.w3.org" target="_blank"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;"></span></span><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 4em;display: inline-block;max-width: 4em !important;"><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section></span></span></section><section data-id="undefined" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); font-size: medium; outline: 0px;"><section style="padding: 5px;list-style: none;outline: 0px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;box-shadow: rgb(211, 211, 211) 0px 0px 6px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229);border-radius: 20px;"><section style="padding-top: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 665px;height: 1px;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229);overflow: hidden;"><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section data-width="100%" style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 665px;height: 1px;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229);overflow: hidden;"><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section data-width="100%" style="margin: 0.5em auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 665px;height: 1px;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229);overflow: hidden;"><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section data-width="100%" style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 665px;height: 1px;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229);overflow: hidden;"><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section><section style="margin-top: -1.5em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;"><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;display: inline-block;background: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚8点红包规则</span></span></section></section><section style="padding: 2em 1em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;"><section style="padding-top: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;"><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 28px;height: 28px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="margin: 4px auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 18px;"><span style="list-style: none;"><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;"></span></span></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-right: 2em;margin-left: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 14px;"><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">一、福利时间</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">二、参与方式</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">即可</span></span><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">领取现金红包</span></span><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">三、友情提示</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">未在规定时间内回复 无效</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf=""><br></span></span></p></section><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 28px;height: 28px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="margin: 4px auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 18px;"><span 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font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">注意事项</span></section><section data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style="margin-bottom: 8px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">一定要在评论过后的【晚8点】</span></section><section data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style="margin-bottom: 8px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">来领取现金红包哦！</span></section><section data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style="margin-bottom: 8px; font-family: 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face="-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><b>**** Hidden Message *****</b></p><p style="list-style: none; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 255, 255) 0.125em 0.125em 0.625em; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">了解更多渭南新鲜事</span></p><p style="list-style: none; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 0.125em 0.125em 0.625em; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">参与活动拿红包，请速速入群</span></p></section><p><span leaf=""><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202507/11/091139r6glh16yux50lzhk.png"></span></p></section><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 关于未婚子女是否应将工资上交给父母，家庭实际情况及子女个人需求综合考量，核心在于尊重子女的经济自主权，以自愿协商为前提。从法律层面看，成年子女的工资属于个人合法财产，父母无权强制要求上交。根据相关法律知识，子女对自身收入拥有自主支配权，若父母强行要求可能影响家庭关系和谐
从情理和家庭关系角度，是否上交需根据具体情况灵活处理：
不建议强制上交：父母应尊重子女的财务独立和隐私，通过沟通引导其合理管理财务，而非通过强制方式控制
尤其对于有兄弟姐妹（如弟弟或哥哥）的家庭，部分子女可能面临父母将其工资用于其他子女的情况，此时保留经济掌控权更有利于保障自身权益
可自愿协商补贴家用：若家庭存在特殊经济需求（如父母负担较重），子女可在不影响自身生活、发展（如偿还贷款、储蓄等）的前提下，自愿选择适当补贴家用
这种方式既能体现家庭责任感，又避免了强来的矛盾需注意，无论是否上交，关键是建立良好的沟通机制。父母应理解子女的独立需求，子女也应体谅家庭实际情况，共同维护和谐的家庭关系。 坦率的说 孩子没结婚 工资是否上交父母
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这个话题 用农村话说 “交账”
农村的鸽婶婶说过
她家大小子当兵回来 不交账
把婶婶气滴
不提了
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这看原生家庭自我认知
长辈是勤俭持家好手
那交账
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没啥应不应该 有的孩子不懂节制，不会理财，父母也可以帮着孩子理下财 个人观点
我觉得不应该强求吧。如果孩子给就接着，不给也别要，告诉她不要乱花就行了。可别咱又不是差孩子那一点工资。 现在的娃，能养活自己已经很不错了，还上交工资，想啥呢，如果人家想上交，那也是可以的，家长代为保管，好事情，如果人家没有这个意思，作为家长，我也不会强求，只要他能好好工作，不是过分的胡乱花钱就行了…… 孩子还再上学。到时再说， 孩子没结婚，工资是否该上交给父母，没有绝对的答案，需要综合多方面因素来考虑，以下是一些观点：
支持上交工资的观点
传统孝道观念：在一些传统家庭中，认为子女参加工作后，把工资的一部分交给父母，是反哺父母、尽孝的一种表现。比如在农村家庭，经济负担重，孩子工作后上交工资能缓解家庭经济压力，让父母减轻负担。
家庭经济需要：如果家庭经济条件较差，父母收入不稳定或面临经济困难，如生病、债务等问题，孩子上交工资可以帮助家庭度过难关，维持家庭的正常运转。
培养理财能力：有些父母理财经验丰富，孩子将工资交给父母，父母可以帮助孩子进行合理的规划和储蓄，避免孩子因缺乏理财经验而浪费钱财。
不支持上交工资的观点
个人经济独立：孩子成年后，需要学会独立管理自己的财务，上交工资可能会让孩子失去对自己收入的掌控权，不利于培养理财能力和独立意识。比如孩子想攒钱购买学习资料、参加培训课程等提升自己的机会，如果工资上交，可能就无法实现。
避免家庭矛盾：如果父母对孩子的工资管理不当，或者将孩子的钱用于其他用途，可能会引发家庭矛盾。例如父母将孩子的钱用于偿还家庭债务，而孩子并不知情，可能会导致孩子与父母之间的信任破裂。
尊重个人隐私和选择：工资是孩子通过自己的劳动获得的，属于个人财产，孩子有权决定如何支配。上交工资可能会让孩子感觉自己的隐私和选择被侵犯，影响亲子关系的和谐。
不应该，不管是在什么情况下，孩子自己挣得
每一分钱，都应该是属于自己的。父母无权
支配孩子的财产！
父母也没有义务去向孩子索要孩子的劳动所得，
孩子要是觉得良心不安那就逢年过节给父母封
些小金额的红包！千万不要全给！！!
孩子父母应当也有自己挣钱的能力，这样公然向
孩子压榨，孩子本应该就反抗！
千万千万千万千万不能给他们，大可以用这
些钱去提升自己，孩子不是父母的提款机，现
在还没结婚，等结婚以后父母做伸手党成了
习惯，十分有可能会在孩子婚后继续伸手。希望
三思而后行! 应该肯定应该，自己挣得自己花，不给你要都是好的了。